A question I struggle with, is when do we say yes thank you so much, when people want to help, your support right now is invaluable. May I have lots of it please! And when is it time to say you know what, I've got this one, but thank you...
Often it is my mother who bears the brunt of this confusion. So mum, this piece is for you x
"I want to know if you know how to melt into that fierce heat of living falling toward the centre of your longing." David Whyte
Under Pressure: Keeping It Simple
Last September my partner and I decided to separate. And in many ways that period last year was the most potent experience I have yet had of feeling like I was falling apart. That the builders came in after my ex moved out to do some work to the house and so turned my home to a thing of dust felt apt. My mother however, sensing that our home of debris was not the calmest of places to be living offered us the spare room, my old room, in her home in battersea. And so Little Human and I relocated from North London to South London. 9 months later we are still here!